We have admittedly struggled with whether or not we should include a Single Parent link on our site. Why? Well, in our opinion, there are two issues. First, are there viable reasons to separate out single parent households? Except for the obvious, is parenting different in one-parent families compared to two? Are the parenting tasks different? Are the needs of the children different? If so, how are they different and if not, why not? Does the family structure provide different parenting challenges? How does a parent handle the different challenges? What resources are present to help a parent make the right decision? It seems that no matter what the family structure, the most important factor is still providing the child with a safe environment and an environment with reduced conflict. A climate that provides reassurance and safety is critical to healthy children.
The second concern is one of negativity. We would never want the single parent to feel as though they are less than any other "traditional" family. Many single parents are doing a superb job raising fine children in Christian homes. Their job however, is unique and very difficult, with many challenges along the way.
What does the American family look like today? The traditional family consists of a working husband, a homemaker wife, and their children. Today it is estimated that less than 1 in 4 families fits this description. The bottom line is that families are more diverse than ever before and have very diverse needs, yet the needs of children are static and universal. Because the needs of single parents are different and unique, we have decided to include this page. If you are a single parent, we pray God’s blessings and encouragement for you and your family.